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failing to get either by trying to get both
A proverb warning against trying to pursue two goals at once and ending up with neither. Similar to 'falling between two stools.'
PROVERB MEANING:
Literally: 'Catching neither the horsefly nor the bee.' The image is of someone trying to catch both a horsefly (虻) and a bee (蜂) at the same time, but failing to catch either one.
ORIGIN:
This proverb comes from the idea that if you're distracted trying to get multiple things, you'll lose focus and miss all of them.
USAGE:
Used as a warning against greed, divided attention, or trying to pursue too many goals simultaneously.
ENGLISH EQUIVALENTS:
- Grasp all, lose all
- Fall between two stools
- A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush (similar theme)
- Between two stools, one falls to the ground
SIMILAR JAPANESE EXPRESSIONS:
- 二兎を追う者は一兎をも得ず: He who chases two rabbits catches neither