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failing to get either by trying to get both
A proverb warning against trying to pursue two goals at once and ending up with neither. Similar to 'falling between two stools.'
Proverb meaning
Literally: 'Catching neither the horsefly nor the bee.' The image is of someone trying to catch both a horsefly (虻) and a bee (蜂) at the same time, but failing to catch either one.
Etymology
This proverb comes from the idea that if you're distracted trying to get multiple things, you'll lose focus and miss all of them.
Usage
Used as a warning against greed, divided attention, or trying to pursue too many goals simultaneously.
English equivalents
- Grasp all, lose all
- Fall between two stools
- A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush (similar theme)
- Between two stools, one falls to the ground