(なさ)

なさけ
noun
compassion; pity; sympathy; love
emotion
1. compassion; pity; sympathy; kindness
A feeling of care and concern for someone who is suffering or in difficulty. The warmth of human feeling that leads one to help others.
I won't forget the person who showed me kindness.
(なさ)(ひと)(ため)ならず。
Kindness is not (just) for others' sake. (proverb)
This proverb means that kindness eventually comes back to benefit you.
He is a compassionate person.
Thanks to the kindness of someone I met while traveling, I was able to make it home safely.
2. love; affection (literary/classical)
Romantic love or deep affection, especially in classical or literary contexts.
The color of flowers fades—how few are those who understand such tender feeling.
Adapted from classical poetry; illustrates the literary/romantic sense of 情け.
To be consumed by romantic love.

Common expressions

NOTE ON (なさ)けない:
(なさ)けない looks like the negative of (なさ)け, but it means "pathetic" or "shameful" — something that makes you ashamed.

Usage

(なさ)け is warm and human, suggesting genuine concern for someone in difficulty. Note that (なさ)かける can also carry a note of condescension — pity from a position of strength — so it is not a neutral way to describe helping a peer.

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