()()ける

うちとける
ichidan verb
to open up; to warm up to
1. to open up; to warm up to; to become friendly
to relax one's guard and become comfortable or friendly with someone
(かれ)はすぐに()()けた。
He quickly warmed up to everyone.
最初(さいしょ)緊張(きんちょう)していたが、(はな)すうちに()()けた。
I was nervous at first, but I opened up as we talked.
()()けた雰囲気(ふんいき)(なか)会議(かいぎ)(すす)んだ。
The meeting proceeded in a relaxed atmosphere.

()()ける is a compound verb combining ()つ (to strike) + ()ける (to loosen), expressing the breaking down of barriers between people.

VERB TYPE:

  • Ichidan verb (る-verb)
  • Intransitive

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • ()()けた雰囲気(ふんいき) (relaxed atmosphere)
  • ()()けた関係(かんけい) (friendly relationship)
  • すぐに()()ける (to quickly warm up)
  • なかなか()()けない (to not easily open up)
  • ~と()()ける (to warm up to ~)

USAGE NOTES:

  • Often describes the process of becoming comfortable with new people
  • The adjective form ()()けた is commonly used to describe atmospheres and relationships
  • Implies overcoming initial awkwardness or formality

RELATED TERMS:

  • (した)しくなる (to become close)
  • 仲良(なかよ)くなる (to become friendly)
  • (こころ)(ひら)く (to open one's heart)
  • (こおり)()ける (the ice breaks - idiom)

REGISTER: Neutral. Common in everyday conversation.