(ほんろう)

ほんろう
noun, suru verb
tossing about, toying with
1. tossing about, being at the mercy of
Being thrown around or controlled by external forces such as fate, circumstances, or waves. Often used passively to describe being helplessly manipulated or controlled.
運命(うんめい)翻弄(ほんろう)される。
To be at the mercy of fate.
(なみ)翻弄(ほんろう)される小舟(こぶね)
A small boat tossed about by the waves.
時代(じだい)変化(へんか)翻弄(ほんろう)されながらも、自分(じぶん)信念(しんねん)(つらぬ)いた。
Despite being tossed about by the changes of the times, they held to their convictions.
2. toying with, manipulating
Actively playing with or manipulating someone or something, treating them as a plaything.
相手(あいて)翻弄(ほんろう)する。
To toy with one's opponent.
(かれ)はスピードで守備(しゅび)翻弄(ほんろう)した。
He used his speed to toy with the defense.
詐欺師(さぎし)翻弄(ほんろう)されて大金(たいきん)(うしな)った。
They were manipulated by a con artist and lost a lot of money.

翻弄(ほんろう) describes being tossed around or manipulated, often by forces beyond one's control.

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • 運命(うんめい)翻弄(ほんろう)される (be at the mercy of fate)
  • 時代(じだい)翻弄(ほんろう)される (be swept up in the times)
  • 感情(かんじょう)翻弄(ほんろう)される (be ruled by emotions)
  • 相手(あいて)翻弄(ほんろう)する (toy with an opponent)

USAGE NOTE: Often used in the passive form される to emphasize helplessness.