(まる)める

まるめる
verb (ichidan)
to roll up, to crumple
1. to roll up, to crumple, to ball up
To make something round or ball-shaped by rolling, crumpling, or curling it.
(かみ)(まる)めて()てた。
I crumpled up the paper and threw it away.
(ねこ)(からだ)(まる)めて()ている。
The cat is sleeping curled up in a ball.
粘土(ねんど)()(まる)めて、(ちい)さな(たま)(つく)った。
I rolled the clay with my hands and made small balls.
2. to smooth over, to talk someone into agreement
To persuade or manipulate someone through smooth talk, or to settle a matter by glossing over details.
うまく(まる)()まれた。
I was smooth-talked into it.
(かれ)(くち)がうまくて、いつも相手(あいて)(まる)める。
He's a smooth talker and always talks people around.
営業(えいぎょう)マンに(まる)()まれて、(たか)いものを()ってしまった。
The salesperson talked me into buying something expensive.

(まる)める has both a physical and figurative meaning.

COMMON COLLOCATIONS (physical):

  • (かみ)(まる)める (crumple paper)
  • (からだ)(まる)める (curl up one's body)
  • 背中(せなか)(まる)める (hunch one's back)

COMMON COLLOCATIONS (figurative):

  • (まる)()む (talk someone into something, sweet-talk)
  • うまく(まる)める (smooth things over)

The compound (まる)()む is very common for the figurative meaning and has a slightly manipulative nuance.