(おかみ)

おかみ
noun
proprietress, landlady (of inn or restaurant)
occupation
1. proprietress, landlady
The female owner or manager of a traditional Japanese inn (ryokan), restaurant, or bar. A respected role in Japanese hospitality, the okami is responsible for overseeing guest relations, service quality, and the overall atmosphere of the establishment.
女将(おかみ)さん出迎(でむか)えてくれた
The proprietress came to greet us.
I hear the proprietress of this inn is the third generation.
The proprietress's heartfelt cooking is so well regarded that many customers come from far away.

Usage

In everyday speech, 女将(おかみ)さん (with the polite suffix) is much more common than the bare form 女将(おかみ). The role carries connotations of warmth, hospitality, and quiet authority.

Common collocations

  • 女将(おかみ)さん: proprietress (polite, standard form in conversation)
  • (わか)女将(おかみ): young proprietress (often the daughter or daughter-in-law being trained)
  • 旅館(りょかん)女将(おかみ): inn proprietress
  • 料亭(りょうてい)女将(おかみ): high-end restaurant proprietress

Cultural note

The 女将(おかみ) is a culturally significant figure in Japanese hospitality (おもてなし). At traditional inns, she personally greets and sees off guests, ensures their comfort, and often knows regular guests by name. The role requires social grace, business acumen, and knowledge of traditional arts and customs.