1.
unmanageable; beyond one's control; too much to handle
Describes a person, situation, or problem that is too difficult or unruly to deal with. Literally means 'cannot be borne by one's hands.'
Usage
This expression functions as an adjective-like phrase modifying nouns with の or used as a predicate. It is always used in the negative form; the affirmative 手に負える (manageable) is rarely used on its own.
Often used about unruly children, out-of-control situations, or problems that exceed one's capabilities. Can also describe difficult animals or machines.
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Related Words
Compare:
手を焼く (to have trouble with)