(うちいわ)

うちいわい
noun
reciprocal gift; return gift for a celebration
1. reciprocal gift; return gift given to celebrate a happy event
A gift given in return to people who gave congratulatory gifts or money for a happy event such as a birth, wedding, or recovery from illness. Also refers to the practice of sharing one's happiness with close acquaintances.
出産(しゅっさん)内祝(うちいわ)いを(おく)った。
I sent return gifts for the baby shower presents.
内祝(うちいわ)いには(なに)(えら)べばいいか(まよ)っている。
I'm unsure what to choose for the return gifts.
結婚(けっこん)のお(いわ)いをいただいたので、内祝(うちいわ)いとして半額(はんがく)ほどの品物(しなもの)用意(ようい)した。
Since I received wedding gifts, I prepared return gifts worth about half the value.

USAGE:
内祝(うちいわ)い originally meant a celebration within the family ((うち) = within), but in modern usage it almost always refers to the return gift given to those who sent congratulatory gifts.

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • 出産(しゅっさん)内祝(うちいわ)い (return gift for birth congratulations)
  • 結婚(けっこん)内祝(うちいわ)い (return gift for wedding congratulations)
  • 快気(かいき)内祝(うちいわ)い (return gift after recovery from illness)
  • 内祝(うちいわ)いを(おく)る (to send a return gift)

CULTURE:
The standard practice is to give a return gift worth approximately half (半返(はんがえ)し) to one-third of the value of the gift received. Popular items include sweets, towels, tableware, and catalogue gifts. The gift is typically accompanied by a のし (decorative wrapper) bearing the words 内祝(うちいわ)い.