往生際が悪い
おうじょうぎわがわるい
expression, i-adjective
refusing to give up; being a poor loser
informalpersonality
Conjugation
| Affirmative | Negative | |
|---|---|---|
| Present | 往生際が悪い | 往生際が悪くない |
| Past | 往生際が悪かった | 往生際が悪くなかった |
| て form | 往生際が悪くて | 往生際が悪くなくて |
| Adverbial | 往生際が悪く | — |
| Conditional ば | 往生際が悪ければ | 往生際が悪くなければ |
| Conditional たら | 往生際が悪かったら | 往生際が悪くなかったら |
1.
refusing to give up; being a poor loser; not accepting defeat gracefully
Stubbornly refusing to accept an inevitable outcome or admit defeat. Literally 'bad at the moment of death,' from the Buddhist concept of dying peacefully.
往生際が悪いぞ。
Stop being such a poor loser.
Etymology
From Buddhist terminology: 往生 means passing on to the Pure Land (dying peacefully), and 際 means the moment of. Someone with a 'bad' 往生際 cannot accept their fate and clings desperately to life — extended figuratively to anyone who refuses to accept an inevitable outcome.
Usage
Used to criticize someone who won't gracefully accept defeat, admit wrongdoing, or give up when the situation is clearly hopeless. Often said directly to the person.
Common collocations
Similar words
- 潔くない: ungraceful — refusing to accept things cleanly
- 悪あがき: desperate struggle — futile resistance
Related Words
Compare:
未練がましい (clingy)