身(み)を寄(よ)せる

Literally "to bring one's body close." This expression means to go live with someone or take refuge with them, typically during difficult circumstances.

Common patterns

• 〜のもとに身(み)を寄(よ)せる: to take shelter with ~
• 〜に身(み)を寄(よ)せる: to stay with ~
• 〜の家(いえ)に身(み)を寄(よ)せる: to stay at ~'s house

Usage

• After losing one's home (火事(かじ), 災害(さいがい))
• During 戦争(せんそう) (war) or conflict
• After personal hardship (離婚(りこん), job loss)
• During illness or old age

Implies dependence on another's hospitality or protection. The person is in a vulnerable position and has limited options. Not used for casual visits or staying with friends for fun.

Related words

• 身(み)を寄(よ)せ合(あ)う: to huddle together (mutual, often for warmth or comfort)
• 頼(たよ)る: to rely on (more general)
• 身(み)を隠(かく)す: to go into hiding