みっともない

みっともない
adjective-i
shameful; unsightly; disgraceful; embarrassing
Conjugation
AffirmativeNegative
Presentみっともないみっともなくない
Pastみっともなかったみっともなくなかった
て formみっともなくてみっともなくなくて
Adverbialみっともなく
Conditional ばみっともなければみっともなくなければ
Conditional たらみっともなかったらみっともなくなかったら
1. shameful; unsightly; disgraceful; embarrassing to look at
Describes behavior, appearance, or situations that are embarrassing, undignified, or socially unacceptable — something one would be ashamed to show to others.
みっともない格好(かっこう)をするな。
Don't dress so shabbily.
人前(ひとまえ)でけんかするなんてみっともない。
It's disgraceful to fight in front of others.
みっともないところを()られてしまった。
Someone saw me in an embarrassing state.
いい(とし)をした大人(おとな)がみっともない()(かた)をしないでください。
Please don't cry in such an unsightly way — you're a grown adult.

Expresses the speaker's judgment that something is socially embarrassing or unbecoming. The shame is often tied to how one appears to others — it implies that the behavior or appearance fails to meet social standards of dignity.

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • みっともない格好(かっこう) — shabby/embarrassing appearance
  • みっともない姿(すがた) — disgraceful sight
  • みっともない真似(まね) — disgraceful behavior
  • みっともないところを()せる — to show an embarrassing side

SIMILAR WORDS:

  • ()ずかしい — embarrassing (focuses on the feeling of shame, not necessarily the judgment of others)
  • (なさ)けない — pathetic, shameful (emphasizes pity or disappointment rather than appearance)
  • だらしない — sloppy, slovenly (focuses on lack of discipline or tidiness)
  • 見苦(みぐる)しい — unsightly, unpleasant to see (more formal; focuses on visual displeasure)

REGISTER:
Common in everyday speech, often used by parents scolding children or in self-deprecating remarks. Slightly informal in tone.