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who (very polite)
A very polite way to ask someone's identity, typically used by receptionists, on the phone, or when answering the door.
どちら様ですか。
May I ask who you are?
The most polite way to ask "who?" in Japanese. Combines どちら (which direction/who, polite) with 様 (honorific suffix). Standard phrasing when answering the door, receiving phone calls, or greeting visitors at a reception desk.
POLITENESS LEVELS FOR "WHO":
Common patterns
- どちら様ですか: Who are you? (polite)
- どちら様でしょうか: Who might you be? (more polite)
- どちら様でいらっしゃいますか: Who are you? (most polite)
Usage
Used in service and hospitality contexts. Receptionists, hotel staff, and phone operators use this form. In everyday casual conversation, 誰 or どなた is used instead.