(ぼさん)

ぼさん
noun
visiting a grave; paying respects at a grave
formalculturereligion
1. visiting a grave; paying respects at a grave
The act of visiting a family grave or memorial to pay respects to the deceased. This is an important cultural practice in Japan, especially during Obon, the spring and autumn equinoxes, and the New Year.
I'm going to visit the grave this weekend.
I never fail to visit the grave every year during Obon.
It has become a family tradition to have a meal together after visiting our grandparents' graves.

A compound of () (grave) and (さん) (visit, worship). Short for (はか)(まい)り, which is the more colloquial expression. 墓参(ぼさん) is used in slightly more formal or written contexts, while (はか)(まい)り is the everyday spoken form.

Grave visiting is a deeply rooted practice in Japanese culture. Families typically clean the gravestone, offer flowers, incense, and water, and pray before the grave. The most common times are during (ぼん) (mid-August), 春分(しゅんぶん)() (spring equinox), 秋分(しゅうぶん)() (autumn equinox), and 命日(めいにち) (death anniversaries).

Common collocations

Similar words

  • (はか)(まい)り: visiting a grave — the everyday colloquial form; same meaning but more casual
  • 参拝(さんぱい): worship, paying a visit (to a shrine or temple) — broader term not limited to graves
  • 法事(ほうじ): Buddhist memorial service — a formal ceremony held at set intervals after death