(わかおくさま)

わかおくさま
noun
young wife; young madam; young mistress of the house
formalpolitefamilyperson
1. young wife; young madam; young mistress of the house
A polite or somewhat old-fashioned term for a young married woman, especially the wife of a household head. Often used by service staff, in-laws, or neighbors to address or refer to a young wife with respect.
若奥様(わかおくさま)、お荷物(にもつ)()します
Young madam, let me carry your bags.
あちら若奥様(わかおくさま)有名(ゆうめい)料理(りょうり)研究家(けんきゅうか)だそうだ。
I hear that young wife over there is a famous cooking expert.
The young madam tends to the garden every morning from early on.

A compound of (わか) (young) and 奥様(おくさま) (wife, madam). The term carries a respectful and somewhat traditional tone.

Usage

This term is typically used:

  • By household staff or shop employees addressing the young wife of a family
  • By older relatives or neighbors referring to a newly married woman
  • In fiction and drama, especially period or domestic settings

Common collocations

Similar words

  • 奥様(おくさま) — wife, madam (general polite term, no age restriction)
  • (おく)さん — wife, Mrs. (less formal than 奥様(おくさま))
  • 若旦那(わかだんな) — young master (the male counterpart)
  • 新妻(にいづま) — newly wedded wife (emphasizes the newness of the marriage)
  • (よめ)さん — bride; young wife (more colloquial and warm)

Register

Formal and traditional. Less commonly used in modern casual conversation, but still appears in customer service (especially at high-end shops), fiction, and formal domestic contexts. The term can sound charming or quaint in contemporary use.

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