凹(へこ)ます

へこます
verb (godan, transitive)
to dent; to make concave; to bring (someone) down emotionally
他動詞 transitiveinformalaction
Conjugation
AffirmativeNegative
Present凹(へこ)ます凹(へこ)まさない
Present polite凹(へこ)まします凹(へこ)ましません
Past凹(へこ)ました凹(へこ)まさなかった
Past polite凹(へこ)ましました凹(へこ)ましませんでした
て form凹(へこ)まして凹(へこ)まさなくて
ている present凹(へこ)ましている凹(へこ)ましていない
ている polite凹(へこ)ましています凹(へこ)ましていません
ている past凹(へこ)ましていた凹(へこ)ましていなかった
ている past polite凹(へこ)ましていました凹(へこ)ましていませんでした
Conditional ば凹(へこ)ませば凹(へこ)まさなければ
Conditional たら凹(へこ)ましたら凹(へこ)まさなかったら
Volitional凹(へこ)まそう—
Volitional polite凹(へこ)ましましょう—
Potential凹(へこ)ませる凹(へこ)ませない
Passive凹(へこ)まされる凹(へこ)まされない
Causative凹(へこ)まさせる凹(へこ)まさせない
Imperative凹(へこ)ませ凹(へこ)ますな
1. to dent; to make a dent in (something); to push in
To physically deform something by pushing or striking it inward, creating a concave area. The transitive counterpart of 凹(へこ)む.
The ball hit the car and dented the roof.
I stomped on the can and dented it badly.
I crashed my bike into the wall and ended up denting the frame.
2. to make (someone) feel down; to dishearten; to take down a peg
To cause someone to feel discouraged, embarrassed, or psychologically deflated — often by criticism, defeat, or a sharp comeback. The transitive counterpart of 凹(へこ)む in its emotional sense.
My senior fired back at me, and I couldn't take him down a peg.
Hit with such a sharp counterargument, I completely deflated him.
If you keep boasting like that, someone's going to take you down a peg.
Used in a passive form here (凹(へこ)まされる).

凹(へこ)ます is the transitive counterpart of 凹(へこ)む. The pair has both a literal sense (causing/being a dent) and a figurative sense (causing/feeling emotional deflation).

Transitivity

Usage

  • Sense 2 is informal/colloquial. The image is of someone's confidence being "dented" — often by a witty retort, defeat in argument, or harsh criticism.
  • Common pattern: 誰(だれ)かを凹(へこ)ます (to bring someone down emotionally). Often appears in sports/competition narratives.

Common collocations

Related words

  • 凹(へこ)む: intransitive counterpart — to be dented; to feel down
  • へこむ is also commonly used as a slang verb among younger speakers for feeling depressed or emotionally low.
  • 凹(へこ)み: the noun (a dent)
  • 潰(つぶ)す: to crush, smash (broader, more violent destruction)
  • 折(お)る: to break (a different kind of damage)

Writing

The kanji 凹(おう) is one of the simplest pictographic kanji — its shape literally depicts a concave indentation. In casual writing, the verb is often written in hiragana (へこます) for readability.