1.
true feelings; real intention; what one really thinks
One's genuine thoughts or feelings as opposed to what one expresses publicly for social harmony.
Cultural concept
本音 and 建前 are a fundamental pair in understanding Japanese communication. 本音 represents one's genuine, private thoughts while 建前 is the public stance maintained for social harmony.
Common expressions
- 本音を言う / 本音を吐く (to speak one's true feelings)
- 本音が出る (one's true feelings come out)
- 本音を隠す (to hide one's true feelings)
- 本音と建前 (true feelings and public stance)
Usage
Often used when revealing something that contrasts with what was previously expressed or expected.
Related Words
Antonym:
建前 (public stance)
Compare:
胸の内 (one's inner thoughts)
Compare:
下心 (ulterior motive)