(たてまえ)

たてまえ
noun
public stance; facade; official position
society
1. public stance; facade; outward appearance
What one expresses publicly to maintain social harmony, regardless of one's true feelings.
That's just the public stance; the truth is different.
In public, they say they agree.
In Japan, it's said that knowing when to use your public face versus your true feelings is a mark of maturity.
2. principle; policy; official position
The stated rule or policy that should be followed in principle.
The company's official policy is that overtime is prohibited.
In principle it's optional, but in reality everyone has to attend.
The official position and the actual situation are far apart.

Cultural concept

建前(たてまえ) is the public face one presents to maintain social harmony (()). It is not considered dishonest in Japanese culture but rather a social skill for smooth relationships.

Common expressions

Original meaning

建前(たてまえ) originally referred to the framework of a building (()てる + (まえ)), symbolizing the outward structure.