()()

おりあい
noun
compromise, settlement, getting along
1. compromise, settlement, agreement
A point of mutual agreement or compromise reached between parties with different interests or opinions.
()()いをつける
to reach a compromise
価格(かかく)()()いがつかなかった。
We couldn't reach an agreement on the price.
(なん)とか()()いをつけて、契約(けいやく)成立(せいりつ)させた。
We managed to reach a compromise and finalize the contract.
2. getting along, relationship
The state of one's relationship with another person, especially whether they get along well or not.
上司(じょうし)との()()いが(わる)
to not get along with one's boss
(かれ)とは()()いが()い。
I get along well with him.
義理(ぎり)(はは)との()()いが(わる)くて、帰省(きせい)するのが憂鬱(ゆううつ)だ。
I don't get along with my mother-in-law, so visiting home is depressing.

USAGE: Often used in the expression ()()いをつける (to reach a compromise) or ()()いがつく (to come to an agreement). For sense 2, typically used with ()い/(わる)い to describe relationships.

NUANCE: ()()い suggests finding a middle ground through negotiation rather than one side winning. In the relationship sense, it focuses on interpersonal harmony and compatibility.

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • ()()いをつける (to reach a compromise)
  • ()()いがつく (to come to an agreement)
  • ()()いが()い/(わる)い (to get along well/poorly)
  • ~との()()い (relationship with ~)

RELATED WORDS:

  • 妥協(だきょう) (compromise - more about giving in)
  • 譲歩(じょうほ) (concession - more formal)
  • (あゆ)()り (meeting halfway)