すれ違(ちが)い

すれちがい
noun
passing by each other, missing each other, miscommunication
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See also: すれ違(ちが)う (verb form)
1. passing each other; just missing each other
Two people or things passing each other going in opposite directions, or just missing each other in time or place.
駅(えき)ですれ違(ちが)いになった。
We just missed each other at the station.
We kept missing each other's calls and couldn't get in touch.
On a narrow road it is hard for cars to pass each other.
2. gap, miscommunication
A gap in feelings or understanding between people; a relationship where the two sides fail to connect.
A gap developed between the two of them.
They broke up because of emotional disconnection.
Even long-married couples can drift apart if they keep living separate lives.

The noun form of the verb すれ違(ちが)う (to pass by each other). Has both a physical and figurative meaning.

SENSE 1 — PHYSICAL:
Two people or things passing each other going in opposite directions.

SENSE 2 — FIGURATIVE:
Emotional disconnect or miscommunication between people. Very common in relationship contexts.

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