(さと)

さとす
verb-godan
to admonish, to counsel, to persuade gently
1. to admonish, to counsel, to persuade gently
To explain something patiently and guide someone toward understanding or correct behavior. Implies a calm, caring approach from someone in a position of authority or experience, rather than angry scolding.
先生(せんせい)生徒(せいと)(さと)した。
The teacher counseled the student.
(はは)(やさ)しく()どもを(さと)した。
The mother gently admonished the child.
何度(なんど)(さと)しても、(かれ)()(みみ)()たなかった。
No matter how many times I tried to reason with him, he wouldn't listen.

USAGE:
(さと)す implies patient, gentle guidance from someone with more experience or authority. The person being counseled is marked with を. It conveys warmth and concern for the other person's well-being, unlike (しか)る (to scold), which is harsher.

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • (やさ)しく(さと)す: to gently counsel
  • ()()かせるように(さと)す: to reason with someone as if explaining
  • ()どもを(さと)す: to talk sense into a child
  • 切々(せつせつ)(さと)す: to earnestly reason with

SIMILAR WORDS:
(しか)る (to scold) involves anger or firmness. (いさ)める (to remonstrate) is used for advising someone of higher status against a wrong course. (さと)す is gentler than both, emphasizing patient explanation and guidance.