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おいめ
noun
sense of guilt, feeling of indebtedness
emotion
1. sense of guilt, feeling of indebtedness, feeling of owing
A persistent feeling of guilt or moral debt toward someone, often because one feels they have done something wrong or have not done enough. Implies an emotional burden that weighs on the conscience.
I feel a sense of guilt toward him.
I can't be firm with her because I feel indebted.
The feeling of indebtedness for being helped has stayed in my heart.

Usage

()() is most commonly used with (かん)じる (to feel) or ある (to have). It describes an internal emotional state — not a financial debt, but a moral or emotional one. People with ()() often feel they cannot assert themselves or refuse requests from the person they feel indebted to.

Common collocations

Similar words

罪悪感(ざいあくかん) (guilt, guilty conscience) is stronger and implies wrongdoing. ()() is softer — it can arise simply from receiving help or having an advantage, not necessarily from doing something wrong.