()やみ

おくやみ
noun
condolence; sympathy
1. condolence; words of sympathy
An expression of sympathy offered to someone who has lost a loved one. The お prefix makes it polite. Used both as a noun and in set phrases when offering condolences.
()やみを(もう)()げます。
I offer my condolences.
友人(ゆうじん)家族(かぞく)にお()やみの手紙(てがみ)()いた。
I wrote a letter of condolence to my friend's family.
突然(とつぜん)訃報(ふほう)(せっ)し、(こころ)よりお()やみを(もう)()げます。
Upon receiving the sudden news of the passing, I offer my heartfelt condolences.

FORMALITY:
()やみ is inherently polite due to the お prefix. The most common set phrase is お()やみを(もう)()げます, a formal expression used at funerals and in writing.

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • ()やみを(もう)()げる (to offer condolences — formal)
  • ()やみの言葉(ことば) (words of condolence)
  • ()やみの手紙(てがみ) (condolence letter)
  • ()やみを()べる (to express condolences)