(ひとあ)たり

ひとあたり
noun
manner with people; personal impression
1. manner with people; personal impression one gives; interpersonal demeanor
The way a person comes across to others in social interactions. Describes the overall impression someone makes through their demeanor, tone, and attitude when dealing with people.
(かれ)人当(ひとあ)たりがいい。
He gives a good impression to people.
人当(ひとあ)たりの(やわ)らかい(ひと)だ。
She's a person with a gentle manner.
人当(ひとあ)たりはいいが、(うら)では(なに)(かんが)えているかわからない(ひと)もいる。
There are people who seem pleasant on the surface but whose real thoughts are hard to read.

Refers to the impression or feeling one gives to others in face-to-face interaction. Usually modified by adjectives like いい (good), (やわ)らかい (soft/gentle), or (わる)い (bad).

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • 人当(ひとあ)たりがいい: pleasant to deal with, gives a good impression
  • 人当(ひとあ)たりが(わる)い: off-putting, gives a bad impression
  • 人当(ひとあ)たりが(やわ)らかい: gentle and approachable
  • 人当(ひとあ)たりの()(ひと): a person who is easy to get along with

NUANCE:
人当(ひとあ)たりがいい is generally positive but can sometimes imply superficiality — someone who is pleasant on the surface but may not be genuinely warm.

SIMILAR WORDS:

  • 愛想(あいそう)がいい: friendly, sociable — more about active friendliness
  • 人柄(ひとがら): character, personality — deeper than surface impression
  • 第一印象(だいいちいんしょう): first impression — specifically about initial encounters