(よわた)(べた)

よわたりべた
noun
being bad at getting along in the world; social ineptness
1. being bad at getting along in the world; social ineptness; poor life skills
The quality of being unskilled at navigating social relationships, workplace politics, or the practical demands of adult life.
(かれ)世渡(よわた)下手(べた)だ。
He's bad at getting along in the world.
正直(しょうじき)すぎて世渡(よわた)下手(べた)なところがある。
He's so honest that he can be bad at navigating social situations.
世渡(よわた)下手(べた)でも、実力(じつりょく)があれば(みと)められることもある。
Even if you're socially inept, you can be recognized if you have real ability.

Composed of 世渡(よわた)り (getting along in the world; making one's way through life) + 下手(べた) (unskilled at). Implies someone who is too honest, awkward, or principled to play social games effectively. Often used with a degree of sympathy or self-deprecation, not purely as criticism.

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • 世渡(よわた)下手(べた)(ひと): a socially inept person
  • 世渡(よわた)りが下手(へた): to be bad at navigating the world

SIMILAR WORDS:

  • 世渡(よわた)上手(じょうず): skilled at getting along in the world — the opposite; someone who smoothly navigates social and professional life
  • 不器用(ぶきよう): clumsy; awkward — broader; can refer to physical or social clumsiness
  • 要領(ようりょう)(わる)い: inefficient; awkward at handling things — describes poor practical judgment more than social skills