あの(ひと)

あのひと
pronoun
that person; he; she
person
1. that person (over there); he; she
A pronoun referring to a person who is distant from both the speaker and listener, or someone both parties know but who is not present.
あの(ひと)(だれ)です
Who is that person?
あの(ひと)なら()っています
I know that person.
I think that person can be trusted.
2. one's significant other; my husband/wife/partner
An indirect way to refer to one's romantic partner or spouse, used to avoid naming them directly.
My partner seems to be busy lately.
I'm truly grateful to him/her (my partner).
Since I met him/her, every day has become enjoyable.

The most natural third-person pronoun in Japanese for referring to someone both speaker and listener are aware of. Unlike (かれ) or 彼女(かのじょ), which feel somewhat formal or translated, あの(ひと) is the default conversational choice.

Usage

In sense 2, women especially use あの(ひと) to refer to their husband or partner in conversation with others. This usage carries a soft, intimate tone without being overly direct. Men may also use it, though 家内(かない), (つま), or the partner's name is more common for men.

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  • あの(ひと): neutral, everyday
  • あの(かた): polite/formal equivalent
  • あの(): that girl/boy — used for younger people, can sound condescending for adults

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