(みれん)たらしい

みれんたらしい
adjective-i
clingy; unable to let go; pathetic about lingering attachment
Conjugation
AffirmativeNegative
Present未練(みれん)たらしい未練(みれん)たらしくない
Past未練(みれん)たらしかった未練(みれん)たらしくなかった
て form未練(みれん)たらしくて未練(みれん)たらしくなくて
Adverbial未練(みれん)たらしく
Conditional ば未練(みれん)たらしければ未練(みれん)たらしくなければ
Conditional たら未練(みれん)たらしかったら未練(みれん)たらしくなかったら
1. clingy; unable to let go; pathetic about lingering attachment
Describes someone whose behavior visibly shows they cannot accept that something is over — most often a relationship, a missed chance, or a past defeat. Strongly negative and often pejorative.
未練(みれん)たらしいことを()うな。
Stop saying such clingy things.
(かれ)元彼女(もとかのじょ)未練(みれん)たらしいメッセージを(おく)(つづ)けている。
He keeps sending clingy messages to his ex-girlfriend.
試合(しあい)には()けたのだから、未練(みれん)たらしい態度(たいど)()らずに(つぎ)(すす)むべきだ。
We lost the game, so we should move on instead of dwelling on it like sore losers.

未練(みれん) (lingering attachment) + the i-adjective suffix たらしい, which adds the meaning 'having the unpleasant appearance of ~'. The suffix makes the adjective sound contemptuous or scornful.

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • 未練(みれん)たらしいことを()う: to say clingy things
  • 未練(みれん)たらしい態度(たいど): a clingy/sore-loser attitude
  • 未練(みれん)たらしく()()う: to behave in a pathetic, clingy way

SIMILAR WORDS:

  • 未練(みれん)がましい: clingy — near-synonym with the same negative tone; がましい is slightly more formal in feel
  • 未練(みれん)がある: to have lingering attachment — neutral; just describes the feeling, not the behavior
  • しつこい: persistent; clingy — broader; can apply to flavors, requests, or people