(みれん)

みれん
noun, na-adjective
regret, lingering attachment
1. regret, lingering attachment
Reluctance to let go; continued attachment to something that is over.
(もと)カノに未練(みれん)がある。
I still have feelings for my ex-girlfriend.
未練(みれん)()()る。
To cut off lingering attachments.
未練(みれん)たらしい態度(たいど)()るな。
Don't act so clingy/regretful.

未練(みれん) describes a lingering attachment to something that has ended.

COMMON PATTERNS:

  • 未練(みれん)がある: to have lingering feelings
  • 未練(みれん)()()る: to cut off lingering attachments
  • 未練(みれん)(のこ)す: to leave regrets behind
  • 未練(みれん)がましい: clingy, showing inability to let go
  • 未練(みれん)たらしい: pathetically attached

USAGE:
Often used about past relationships, jobs, or missed opportunities. Generally carries a negative connotation - suggesting inability to move forward.

NA-ADJECTIVE USAGE:
未練(みれん)態度(たいど): an attitude showing lingering attachment

CONTRAST:

  • 未練(みれん): regretful attachment (negative)
  • (なつ)かしい: nostalgic (neutral/positive)