亭主元気(ていしゅげんき)で留守(るす)がいい

ていしゅげんきでるすがいい
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a wife is happiest when her husband is out
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1. a wife is happiest when her husband is out; better when the husband is healthy and away
A humorous proverb expressing that a wife prefers her husband to be healthy enough to go to work and stay out of the house, rather than being home all day. Reflects a traditional housewife perspective on domestic life.
「亭主元気(ていしゅげんき)で留守(るす)がいい」という言葉(ことば)が昔(むかし)はよく使(つか)われた。
The saying 'Better when the husband is healthy and out' was commonly used in the past.
定年退職(ていねんたいしょく)して夫(おっと)がずっと家(いえ)にいるようになると、「亭主元気(ていしゅげんき)で留守(るす)がいい」とはいかなくなる。
Once the husband retires and is home all the time, the 'better when he's away' situation is no more.
「亭主元気(ていしゅげんき)で留守(るす)がいい」というフレーズは防虫剤(ぼうちゅうざい)のテレビCMから生(う)まれ、流行語(りゅうこうご)になった。
The phrase 'better when the husband is healthy and away' came from a TV commercial for a moth repellent and became a catchphrase.

A humorous saying that comes from a 1986 television commercial for Kincho's Tansu ni Gon moth repellent. It is now a well-known saying, though it reflects a traditional gender-role perspective.

亭主(ていしゅ) is an older term for husband (especially by a wife); 留守(るす) means being away from home or absent. The phrase is often used in the context of husbands retiring and suddenly being home all day.