()める

とめる
ichidan verb
to let someone stay overnight, to put someone up
1. to let someone stay overnight, to put someone up
To provide a place for someone to sleep for the night. The host is the subject, and the guest is marked with を.
友達(ともだち)()めた。
I let my friend stay over.
終電(しゅうでん)(のが)した同僚(どうりょう)(いえ)()めた。
I put up a colleague who missed the last train.
親戚(しんせき)()るので、客間(きゃくま)()めることにした。
Since relatives are coming, I decided to put them up in the guest room.

USAGE:
The transitive counterpart of ()まる (to stay overnight). The subject is the person providing the lodging, and the person staying is marked with を: (ひと)()める.

SIMILAR WORDS:
()める means "to stop" and ()める means "to fasten/pin." All three are read とめる but use different kanji.

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • 友人(ゆうじん)()める: to put up a friend
  • (いえ)()める: to let stay at one's house
  • 一晩(ひとばん)()める: to let stay for one night