1.
presumptuous; forward; intrusive
Overstepping one's bounds; offering opinions or actions when not appropriate or requested.
差し出がましいようですが、一言申し上げます。
It may be presumptuous of me, but allow me to say one thing.
差し出がましい口出しはやめてほしい。
I wish you would stop your presumptuous interference.
差し出がましいことを言ってすみません。
I'm sorry for being presumptuous.
WORD FORMATION:
差し出る (to put forward) + がましい (seeming like, -ish) → seeming to put oneself forward = presumptuous
FORMS:
- 差し出がましい口出し - presumptuous interference
- 差し出がましいようですが - it may be presumptuous, but...
- 差し出がましさ (noun) - presumptuousness
POLITE USAGE:
「差し出がましいようですが…」is a humble way to preface advice or suggestions that one might not have been asked for. It acknowledges that one may be overstepping.
COMPARISON:
- 差し出がましい - presumptuous (formal, self-deprecating)
- お節介 - meddlesome (more casual, about behavior)
Related Words
Related:
お節介 (meddlesome)