()()がましい

さしでがましい
i-adjective
presumptuous; forward; intrusive
1. presumptuous; forward; intrusive
Overstepping one's bounds; offering opinions or actions when not appropriate or requested.
()()がましいようですが、一言(ひとこと)(もう)()げます。
It may be presumptuous of me, but allow me to say one thing.
()()がましい口出(くちだ)しはやめてほしい。
I wish you would stop your presumptuous interference.
()()がましいことを()ってすみません。
I'm sorry for being presumptuous.

WORD FORMATION:
()()る (to put forward) + がましい (seeming like, -ish) → seeming to put oneself forward = presumptuous

FORMS:

  • ()()がましい口出(くちだ)し - presumptuous interference
  • ()()がましいようですが - it may be presumptuous, but...
  • ()()がましさ (noun) - presumptuousness

POLITE USAGE:
()()がましいようですが…」is a humble way to preface advice or suggestions that one might not have been asked for. It acknowledges that one may be overstepping.

COMPARISON:

  • ()()がましい - presumptuous (formal, self-deprecating)
  • 節介(せっかい) - meddlesome (more casual, about behavior)