(はっぽうびじん)

はっぽうびじん
noun
people-pleaser; someone who tries to please everyone
personalityevaluation
1. people-pleaser; someone who tries to please everyone
a person who tries to be liked by everyone and avoids taking clear positions, often seen negatively as lacking principles
彼女(かのじょ)八方美人(はっぽうびじん)だ。
She's a people-pleaser.
八方美人(はっぽうびじん)信用(しんよう)されない
People-pleasers are not trusted.
八方美人(はっぽうびじん)態度(たいど)やめるべきだ。
You should stop trying to please everyone.

Etymology

八方(はっぽう) (eight directions / all directions) + 美人(びじん) (beautiful person)

  • "A beauty from every angle" → someone who looks good to everyone.

Usage

Almost always used with negative connotation. It implies someone who lacks genuine conviction and changes their position depending on who they're talking to.

  • 八方美人(はっぽうびじん)(ひと) (a people-pleaser)
  • 八方美人(はっぽうびじん)態度(たいど) (people-pleasing attitude)
  • 八方美人(はっぽうびじん)なる (to become a people-pleaser)

Similar words

  • 調子者(ちょうしもの) (smooth talker, someone who goes along with others)
  • 日和見(ひよりみ) (fence-sitter, opportunist)