(とつ)

とつぐ
verb (godan)
to marry into (a family), to be married off
1. to marry into (a family), to be married off
For a woman to marry and join her husband's family. Reflects the traditional Japanese marriage custom where the bride enters the groom's household. Though the concept is becoming less common in modern society, the word remains widely used.
(むすめ)(とお)くへ(とつ)いだ。
My daughter married into a family far away.
(あね)農家(のうか)(とつ)いだ。
My older sister married into a farming family.
彼女(かのじょ)名家(めいか)(とつ)いだが、嫁姑(よめしゅうとめ)関係(かんけい)苦労(くろう)したそうだ。
She married into a distinguished family, but apparently had difficulties with the mother-in-law relationship.

PARTICLE PATTERNS:

  • 〜に(とつ)ぐ: to marry into (a family/household)
  • 〜へ(とつ)ぐ: to marry away to (a place)

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • 農家(のうか)(とつ)ぐ: to marry into a farming family
  • (とお)くへ(とつ)ぐ: to marry far away
  • (とつ)いだ(さき): the family one married into
  • (とつ)いでいく: to go away in marriage

CULTURAL NOTE:
Traditionally, Japanese marriage involved the bride ((よめ)) entering the groom's family (婿(むこ)()り is the reverse). (とつ)ぐ reflects this patrilocal custom. While modern marriages are more egalitarian, the word is still commonly used, especially in rural areas and when describing traditional family structures. The subject is always the woman.

SIMILAR WORDS:
結婚(けっこん)する is the neutral word for "to marry" used by either gender. (とつ)ぐ specifically implies the woman joining the husband's family.