嫁(とつ)ぐ

とつぐ
verb (godan)
to marry into (a family), to be married off
自動詞 intransitivefamily
Conjugation
AffirmativeNegative
Present嫁(とつ)ぐ嫁(とつ)がない
Present polite嫁(とつ)ぎます嫁(とつ)ぎません
Past嫁(とつ)いだ嫁(とつ)がなかった
Past polite嫁(とつ)ぎました嫁(とつ)ぎませんでした
て form嫁(とつ)いで嫁(とつ)がなくて
ている present嫁(とつ)いでいる嫁(とつ)いでいない
ている polite嫁(とつ)いでいます嫁(とつ)いでいません
ている past嫁(とつ)いでいた嫁(とつ)いでいなかった
ている past polite嫁(とつ)いでいました嫁(とつ)いでいませんでした
Conditional ば嫁(とつ)げば嫁(とつ)がなければ
Conditional たら嫁(とつ)いだら嫁(とつ)がなかったら
Volitional嫁(とつ)ごう—
Volitional polite嫁(とつ)ぎましょう—
Potential嫁(とつ)げる嫁(とつ)げない
Passive嫁(とつ)がれる嫁(とつ)がれない
Causative嫁(とつ)がせる嫁(とつ)がせない
Imperative嫁(とつ)げ嫁(とつ)ぐな
1. to marry into (a family), to be married off
For a woman to marry and join her husband's family. Reflects the traditional Japanese marriage custom where the bride enters the groom's household. Though the concept is becoming less common in modern society, the word remains widely used.
娘(むすめ)が遠(とお)くへ嫁(とつ)いだ。
My daughter married into a family far away.
姉(あね)は農家(のうか)に嫁(とつ)いだ。
My older sister married into a farming family.
彼女(かのじょ)は名家(めいか)に嫁(とつ)いだが、嫁姑(よめしゅうとめ)の関係(かんけい)に苦労(くろう)したそうだ。
She married into a distinguished family, but apparently had difficulties with the mother-in-law relationship.

Common patterns

  • 〜に嫁(とつ)ぐ: to marry into (a family/household)
  • 〜へ嫁(とつ)ぐ: to marry away to (a place)

Common collocations

  • 農家(のうか)に嫁(とつ)ぐ: to marry into a farming family
  • 遠(とお)くへ嫁(とつ)ぐ: to marry far away
  • 嫁(とつ)いだ先(さき): the family one married into
  • 嫁(とつ)いでいく: to go away in marriage

Cultural note

Traditionally, Japanese marriage involved the bride (嫁(よめ)) entering the groom's family (婿(むこ)入(い)り is the reverse). 嫁(とつ)ぐ reflects this patrilocal custom. While modern marriages are more egalitarian, the word is still commonly used, especially in rural areas and when describing traditional family structures. The subject is always the woman.

Similar words

結婚(けっこん)する is the neutral word for "to marry" used by either gender. 嫁(とつ)ぐ specifically implies the woman joining the husband's family.