手玉(てだま) てだま noun small beanbag; juggling ball leisure 1. small beanbag; juggling ball A small ball or beanbag, as used in the traditional game お手玉(てだま). In everyday Japanese it appears mostly in the idiom 手玉(てだま)に取(と)る. 子(こ)どもが手玉(てだま)で遊(あそ)んでいる。🔊 A child is playing with beanbags. 彼女(かのじょ)は相手(あいて)を手玉(てだま)に取(と)った。🔊 She wrapped her opponent around her finger. 交渉(こうしょう)相手(あいて)を手玉(てだま)に取(と)って、有利(ゆうり)な条件(じょうけん)を引(ひ)き出(だ)した。🔊 He played the other party at the negotiating table and drew out favorable terms. Literally a small ball or beanbag, as used in the traditional game お手玉(てだま). In everyday Japanese it appears mostly in the idiom below.Key idiom手玉(てだま)に取(と)る: to manipulate someone at will; to wrap around one's fingerCommon collocations相手(あいて)を手玉(てだま)に取(と)る: to toy with an opponentお手玉(てだま): the traditional beanbag game general Added 2026.5.25 13:08 · Revised 2026.9.2 13:02 28000/28101_tedama