(かあ)さん

おかあさん
noun
mother (honorific)
informalhonorificfamily
See also: (はは) (humble form)
1. mother (honorific)
A polite way to refer to someone's mother, including one's own when speaking to others.
(かあ)さん、おはよう
Good morning, Mom.
(かあ)さん元気(げんき)です
How is your mother?
(かあ)さん()いてみる
I'll ask my mother.
The food my mother cooks is the best.
My mother is busy every day, but she's always smiling.

(かあ)さん is the standard polite term for "mother," used both as a form of address and as a reference term.

Usage

In formal speech and writing, use (はは) for one's own mother and お(かあ)さん (or 母上(ははうえ)) for someone else's mother. This inside/outside ((うち)/(そと)) distinction is important in Japanese.

Formality levels

  • (かあ)さん: standard polite (most common)
  • (はは): humble form (used when referring to one's own mother in formal situations)
  • (かあ)さま: very formal/respectful
  • ママ: casual, used by young children or in informal settings
  • おふくろ: colloquial, typically used by adult men