(なかまはず)

なかまはずれ
noun
exclusion from a group, being left out
1. exclusion from a group, ostracism
The state of being left out or excluded from a group; social isolation imposed by peers.
彼女(かのじょ)仲間外(なかまはず)れにされている。
She is being excluded from the group.
仲間外(なかまはず)れにされるのが(こわ)い。
I'm afraid of being left out.
転校(てんこう)直後(ちょくご)仲間外(なかまはず)れのように(かん)じた。
Right after transferring schools, I felt like an outsider.
仲間外(なかまはず)れはいじめの一種(いっしゅ)だ。
Exclusion is a form of bullying.

仲間外(なかまはず)れ describes being excluded from a peer group.

ETYMOLOGY:
仲間(なかま) (peer group, companions) + (はず)れ (being off, deviation) - being outside the group.

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • 仲間外(なかまはず)れにする - to exclude someone
  • 仲間外(なかまはず)れにされる - to be excluded (passive)
  • 仲間外(なかまはず)れにあう - to experience exclusion

USAGE NOTE:
Often discussed in the context of school bullying ({いじめ}) in Japan. Deliberate exclusion from a group is considered a form of {いじめ}. The term emphasizes the social pain of not belonging.

SIMILAR WORDS:

  • 仲間外(なかまはず)れ vs. いじめ: 仲間外(なかまはず)れ is a specific type of いじめ (exclusion-based)
  • 仲間外(なかまはず)れ vs. 疎外(そがい): 仲間外(なかまはず)れ is colloquial, often about peers; 疎外(そがい) is more formal/abstract (alienation)