あのね

あのね
interjection
you know
informalcolloquialexpressioncommunication
1. you know
a filler phrase used to get someone's attention or introduce a topic; "um," "you know," "listen"
あのね、話(はなし)があるんだけど。
Um, I have something to tell you.
あのね、お母(かあ)さん、今日(きょう)学校(がっこう)でね...
You know, Mom, at school today...
あのね、ちょっと聞(き)いてほしいことがあるの。
Listen, there's something I want you to hear.

Etymology

  • あの: That (demonstrative, but here functions as hesitation marker)
  • ね: Sentence-ending particle seeking agreement/attention

Functions

1. Getting attention before speaking
2. Introducing a new topic
3. Hesitation marker when unsure how to start
4. Softening what comes next

Forms

  • あのね: Standard form
  • あのねえ: Extended, more hesitant or wheedling
  • あのさ: More casual, slightly masculine
  • あの...: Trailing off, showing hesitation

USAGE (who says it):

  • Common among children when talking to parents
  • Used by adults in casual conversation

Similar words

USAGE (tone):

  • Soft and friendly tone
  • Can sound childish if overused by adults
  • Creates intimacy in conversation

Register

Informal; casual conversation.

Related Words

Compare: ねえ (Hey, listen)
Compare: えっと (Um, let me see)
Compare: あのさ (hey, you know, listen)
Compare: ちょっと (Wait, excuse me)
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Added 2026.1.21 20:36 · Revised 2026.10.12 5:16
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