(たしな)

たしなみ
noun
refinement; accomplishment; modesty; taste
formalculture
1. refinement, accomplishment, cultivation
Skills, knowledge, or cultural accomplishments considered befitting a well-bred or cultured person.
茶道(さどう)大人(おとな)(たしな)みだ。
The tea ceremony is a refined accomplishment for adults.
武道(ぶどう)(たしな)ある
To have an acquaintance with martial arts.
As part of her education, she acquired the accomplishments of music and flower arranging.
2. modesty, propriety, decorum
The quality of having good manners and behaving with appropriate restraint and decorum.
When appearing in front of others, one should tidy one's appearance as a matter of propriety.
It's important to have the decorum expected of a working adult.

Usage

A somewhat literary or refined word. Sense 1 often appears in the pattern ~(たしな)ある (to have some skill/knowledge in ~). The compound ()だしなみ (personal grooming, presentation) is very common in everyday Japanese.

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