(つつま)ましい

つつましい
i-adjective
modest; humble; reserved
Conjugation
AffirmativeNegative
Present(つつま)ましい(つつま)ましくない
Past(つつま)ましかった(つつま)ましくなかった
て form(つつま)ましくて(つつま)ましくなくて
Adverbial(つつま)ましく
Conditional ば(つつま)ましければ(つつま)ましくなければ
Conditional たら(つつま)ましかったら(つつま)ましくなかったら
1. modest; humble; reserved; unassuming
Describes a person or lifestyle that is restrained, unpretentious, and avoids excess or ostentation. Carries a positive connotation of admirable self-restraint and quiet dignity.
(つつま)ましい()らしをしている。
She lives a modest life.
祖母(そぼ)(つつま)ましい(ひと)で、自分(じぶん)のことはあまり(はな)さない。
My grandmother is a reserved person and doesn't talk about herself much.
(つつま)ましいながらも(しあわ)せな生活(せいかつ)(おく)っている。
They lead a humble but happy life.

A positive word expressing admiration for someone's modesty and restraint. Common collocations: (つつま)ましい()らし (modest living), (つつま)ましい態度(たいど) (reserved demeanor), (つつま)ましやかな (a more literary variant). Often used to describe people who live within their means without complaint. Distinguished from 謙虚(けんきょ) (humble in attitude/speech) — (つつま)ましい emphasizes restraint in lifestyle and behavior rather than verbal humility.