(とうさま)

おとうさま
noun
father (highly polite); your father; Father
1. father (highly polite term)
Very polite honorific term for someone else's father, or a formal address used by a child to their own father in upper-class or traditional families. More formal than お(とう)さん.
父様(とうさま)はお元気(げんき)ですか。
Is your father well?
父様(とうさま)によろしくお(つた)えください。
Please give my regards to your father.
父様(とうさま)会社(かいしゃ)経営(けいえい)されているそうですね。
I hear your father runs a company.

Highly polite term formed with the honorific prefix お and the honorific suffix (さま). Used primarily when referring respectfully to the listener's or a third party's father; rare in casual speech.

POLITENESS HIERARCHY (from casual to formal):

  • (ちち): my father — humble; for one's own father when talking to outsiders
  • パパ / お(とう)ちゃん: dad / papa — casual, often childlike
  • (とう)さん: father — standard polite
  • 父様(とうさま): father — very polite/formal, often for someone else's father

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • 父様(とうさま)にお(つた)えください: please tell your father
  • 父様(とうさま)のお仕事(しごと): your father's work
  • 両親様(りょうしんさま)・お父様(とうさま)・お母様(かあさま): standard formal trio in letters and invitations

SIMILAR WORDS:

  • 母様(かあさま): mother (very polite) — parallel form
  • 尊父(そんぷ): your honorable father — used in formal letters and condolences