お父様(とうさま)

おとうさま
noun
father (highly polite); your father; Father
formalhonorificfamily
1. father (highly polite term)
Very polite honorific term for someone else's father, or a formal address used by a child to their own father in upper-class or traditional families. More formal than お父(とう)さん.
お父様(とうさま)はお元気(げんき)ですか。
Is your father well?
お父様(とうさま)によろしくお伝(つた)えください。
Please give my regards to your father.
I hear your father runs a company.

Highly polite term formed with the honorific prefix お and the honorific suffix 様(さま). Used primarily when referring respectfully to the listener's or a third party's father; rare in casual speech.

POLITENESS HIERARCHY (from casual to formal):

  • 父(ちち): my father — humble; for one's own father when talking to outsiders
  • パパ / お父(とう)ちゃん: dad / papa — casual, often childlike
  • お父(とう)さん: father — standard polite
  • お父様(とうさま): father — very polite/formal, often for someone else's father

Common collocations

  • お父様(とうさま)にお伝(つた)えください: please tell your father
  • お父様(とうさま)のお仕事(しごと): your father's work
  • ご両親様(りょうしんさま)・お父様(とうさま)・お母様(かあさま): standard formal trio in letters and invitations

Similar words

  • お母様(かあさま): mother (very polite) — parallel form
  • ご尊父(そんぷ): your honorable father — used in formal letters and condolences