1.
your son; someone else's son (respectful)
A respectful term for the son of the person one is addressing or referring to, used in formal speech, letters, and ceremonial occasions. The female counterpart is 御令嬢.
御令息のご活躍を伺いました。
I have heard of your son's fine accomplishments.
この度は御令息のご結婚、おめでとうございます。
Congratulations on your son's marriage.
社長の御令息が会社を継ぐことになった。
The president's son is to take over the company.
Formed from the honorific prefix 御 + 令息 (another's son). A formal keigo term used to elevate the listener's family; never used for one's own son.
USAGE:
- Appears mainly in formal letters, speeches, and announcements (weddings, funerals, business).
- In everyday conversation, 息子さん is the ordinary polite equivalent.
SIMILAR WORDS:
- 御令嬢: your daughter (honorific) — the female counterpart.
- 息子さん: your son — polite but far more casual and common in speech.