妬(ねた)ましい

ねたましい
i-adjective
enviable in a resentful way; jealous; galling
emotion
Conjugation
AffirmativeNegative
Present妬(ねた)ましい妬(ねた)ましくない
Past妬(ねた)ましかった妬(ねた)ましくなかった
て form妬(ねた)ましくて妬(ねた)ましくなくて
Adverbial妬(ねた)ましく—
Conditional ば妬(ねた)ましければ妬(ねた)ましくなければ
Conditional たら妬(ねた)ましかったら妬(ねた)ましくなかったら
1. enviable in a resentful way; galling; arousing jealousy
Describes someone or something that stirs bitter envy — wanting what another has, mixed with resentment that they have it. Stronger and more negative than 羨(うらや)ましい.
彼(かれ)の成功(せいこう)が妬(ねた)ましい。
I'm resentfully envious of his success.
妬(ねた)ましいほど仲(なか)がいい二人(ふたり)だ。
The two of them are so close it's almost galling.
I can't help feeling bitterly envious of a colleague who gets results more easily than I do.

The adjective form of 妬(ねた)む (to be jealous). Conveys envy mixed with resentment, a more negative feeling than simple admiration.

Common collocations

  • 妬(ねた)ましく思(おも)う: to feel resentfully envious
  • 妬(ねた)ましいほど: enviably (to a galling degree)

Similar words

  • 羨(うらや)ましい: envious — wishing one had what another has, but without the bitter resentment; much more neutral and common