どうしても

どうしても
adverb
no matter what, by all means
1. no matter what, by all means
Expresses strong determination or insistence. Used when someone absolutely wants or needs to do something.
どうしても()きたい
I really want to go no matter what.
If you absolutely need it, I'll buy it for you.
I really want to see her no matter what.
I absolutely want to finish it by the end of today.
If you really want to participate, sign up.
2. just cannot, no matter how hard one tries
Used with negative expressions to indicate inability despite effort. Means 'simply cannot' or 'can't help but'.
I just can't remember, no matter how hard I try.
With negative = simply cannot
I just can't understand it.
There are nights when I just can't sleep.
どうしても(ゆる)せない
I just can't forgive them.
He simply won't admit it no matter what.

USAGE: どうしても has two main uses depending on whether it appears with affirmative or negative statements:

1. With AFFIRMATIVE statements:

  • どうしても〜たい (really want to ~)
  • どうしても〜する (will ~ no matter what)
  • Expresses strong will or necessity

2. With NEGATIVE statements:

  • どうしても〜ない (just cannot ~)
  • どうしても〜できない (simply cannot ~)
  • Expresses inability despite best efforts

NUANCES:

SIMILAR EXPRESSIONS: