(あしで)まとい

あしでまとい
noun
burden; hindrance; someone who slows others down
personevaluation
1. burden; hindrance; dead weight
A person or thing that gets in the way of others and keeps them from moving or working freely. Most often used of a person, and frequently of oneself in self-deprecation.
足手(あしで)まといなりたくない
I don't want to be a burden.
(おお)きな荷物(にもつ)足手(あしで)まといになった。
The big luggage slowed us down.
My foot was hurting, and I worried I would be dead weight for the team.

Common collocations

  • 足手(あしで)まといなる: to become a burden
  • 足手(あしで)まといだ: to be dead weight
  • 足手(あしで)まとい(あつか)される: to be treated as a hindrance

Usage

Calling someone else 足手(あしで)まとい is harsh, so the word appears far more often in the first person ((わたし)足手(あしで)まといなる) or in an anxious question about oneself. Also read あしてまとい, and written 足手(あしで)(まと)い in older texts.

Similar words

  • 邪魔(じゃま): a nuisance, something in the way — broader, and not specifically about slowing progress
  • 重荷(おもに): a heavy load, a responsibility one can hardly bear