へたれ

へたれ
noun
wimp; coward; weakling
1. wimp; coward; weakling; gutless person
A person who lacks courage, determination, or strength. A colloquial and somewhat derogatory term for someone who gives up easily or is unreliable.
あいつはへたれだ。
That guy is a wimp.
へたれなことを()うな。
Don't say such cowardly things.
最初(さいしょ)威勢(いせい)がよかったのに、いざとなるとへたれになる。
He talked big at first, but when it came down to it, he turned into a coward.

A colloquial term originally from Kansai dialect that has spread nationwide. Can be used as a noun (「あのへたれ」 = that wimp) or as a な-adjective (「へたれな(やつ)」 = a gutless person). Mildly derogatory — used among friends or to describe fictional characters, but can be insulting if directed at someone directly.

ETYMOLOGY:
Possibly derived from へたる (to collapse, to give out), suggesting someone who gives up or collapses under pressure.

USAGE:

  • As a noun: あいつはへたれだ (He's a wimp)
  • As a な-adjective: へたれな性格(せいかく) (a gutless personality)
  • Common in manga, anime, and internet slang to describe characters who lack backbone

SIMILAR WORDS:

  • 臆病者(おくびょうもの): coward — more standard and somewhat literary
  • 弱虫(よわむし): crybaby, weakling — often used for children
  • 意気地(いくじ)なし: spineless person — slightly more formal insult