(かかんしょう)

かかんしょう
noun, na-adjective
overinvolvement; excessive meddling; being too controlling
familysociety
1. overinvolvement; excessive interference; being too controlling
Interfering too much in someone else's affairs, especially a parent being overly controlling of their child. A common topic in discussions about parenting and relationships.
(おや)過干渉(かかんしょう)(なや)んでいる
I'm struggling with my parents' overinvolvement.
過干渉(かかんしょう)()ども自立(じりつ)(さまた)げる
Being too controlling hinders a child's independence.
I understand wanting to worry, but I'm careful not to become too controlling.

Compound of () (excessive) + 干渉(かんしょう) (interference, meddling). Most commonly used in the context of parent-child relationships, but can apply to any relationship where one party interferes too much.

Common collocations

Similar words

  • 過保護(かほご): overprotection — shielding too much rather than controlling
  • 干渉(かんしょう): interference — the neutral base word without the "excessive" prefix
  • おせっかい: meddlesome, nosy — more colloquial, broader context

Cultural note

過干渉(かかんしょう) is a frequent topic in Japanese parenting discussions, self-help books, and psychology. It is often contrasted with 過保護(かほご) (overprotective) and 放任(ほうにん) (laissez-faire, hands-off parenting).