(あま)やかし

あまやかし
noun
spoiling; indulgence; pampering
1. spoiling; indulgence; pampering; being too lenient
The act of being excessively indulgent toward someone, especially a child, by giving them whatever they want and failing to discipline them. Almost always carries a negative connotation.
()どもの(あま)やかしはよくない。
Spoiling children is not good.
祖父母(そふぼ)(あま)やかしで、わがままになった。
The grandparents' spoiling made the child selfish.
(きび)しさと(あま)やかしのバランスが子育(こそだ)てでは大切(たいせつ)だと()われている。
It is said that the balance between strictness and indulgence is important in child-rearing.

Derived from the verb (あま)やかす (to spoil, to pamper). The nominalized form emphasizes the behavior or pattern of being too indulgent. Almost always used in negative contexts, particularly in discussions about child-rearing.

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • ()どもの(あま)やかし: spoiling of children
  • (あま)やかしすぎ: excessive pampering
  • (あま)やかしの結果(けっか): the result of spoiling

SIMILAR WORDS:

  • (あま)やかす: to spoil, to pamper — the verb form
  • (あま)え: dependence, acting spoiled — from (あま)える (to depend on someone's indulgence)
  • 過保護(かほご): overprotection — sheltering a child excessively
  • 溺愛(できあい): doting, excessive affection — loving someone blindly and excessively