わがまま

わがまま
na-adjective, noun
selfish, willful
1. selfish, self-centered, willful
Behavior characterized by doing what one wants without considering others; selfishness or capriciousness.
わがままを()わないで。
Don't be selfish. / Don't make selfish demands.
わがままを言う = to make selfish demands
(かれ)はわがままな()だ。
He is a selfish child.
わがままを(ゆる)してください。
Please forgive my selfishness.
Often used apologetically when making a personal request
あの(ひと)はわがままで、いつも自分(じぶん)(おも)(どお)りにしたがる。
That person is selfish and always wants things to go their own way.
子供(こども)のわがままを(なん)でも()いていると、大人(おとな)になってから(こま)ることになる。
If you give in to every selfish demand a child makes, it will cause problems when they grow up.
わがままを()く = to give in to selfish demands

USAGE: わがまま describes selfish or willful behavior, often used for children who won't listen or adults who prioritize their own desires. Can be written 我儘(わがまま) in kanji.

COMMON PATTERNS:

  • わがままを()う (to make selfish demands)
  • わがままな(ひと) (a selfish person)
  • わがままを(とお)す (to have one's own way)

REGISTER: Can be used critically or self-deprecatingly. When used about oneself, it can be a humble way to apologize for a request.