(かって)()まま

かってきまま
adjective
selfish; self-indulgent; doing as one pleases
1. selfish; self-indulgent; doing as one pleases without regard for others
Describes behavior or a personality that follows personal desires and whims without consideration for others. Carries a negative connotation of willfulness and selfishness.
(かれ)勝手(かって)()ままに()らしている。
He lives as he pleases.
勝手(かって)()ままな行動(こうどう)(まわ)りに迷惑(めいわく)をかける。
Selfish behavior causes trouble for those around you.
()どもの(ころ)勝手(かって)()ままだったが、社会(しゃかい)()てからは()わった。
He was self-indulgent as a child, but changed after entering the workforce.

A compound of 勝手(かって) (selfishness; doing as one likes) and ()まま (whimsical; carefree). Together they reinforce each other to describe someone who acts entirely on personal whims without considering the impact on others. The tone is distinctly negative when describing someone's character, though it can sound envious when describing a lifestyle.

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • 勝手(かって)()ままに()らす: to live as one pleases
  • 勝手(かって)()ままな()()い: self-indulgent behavior
  • 勝手(かって)()ままな性格(せいかく): selfish personality

SIMILAR WORDS:

  • ()まま: carefree; whimsical — lighter in tone, can be positive (enjoying freedom)
  • 勝手(かって): selfish; arbitrary — focuses on acting without permission or consideration
  • 自分勝手(じぶんかって): selfish; self-centered — emphasizes putting oneself first
  • {わがまま}: selfish; spoiled — the most common everyday word for selfishness