(とめそで)

とめそで
noun
tomesode; formal kimono for married women
1. tomesode; formal kimono for married women
The most formal type of kimono worn by married women, characterized by a solid-color upper body and decorative patterns only along the hem. The black version (黒留袖(くろとめそで)) is worn at weddings and the most formal occasions.
(はは)留袖(とめそで)()結婚式(けっこんしき)出席(しゅっせき)した。
My mother wore a tomesode to attend the wedding.
留袖(とめそで)既婚女性(きこんじょせい)第一礼装(だいいちれいそう)とされている。
The tomesode is considered the most formal attire for married women.
息子(むすこ)結婚式(けっこんしき)のために、黒留袖(くろとめそで)新調(しんちょう)した。
I had a new black tomesode made for my son's wedding.

From ()める (to fix, to keep) + (そで) (sleeve). Historically, the sleeves of a young woman's furisode were shortened ('fixed' shorter) upon marriage to produce the tomesode style.

TYPES:

  • 黒留袖(くろとめそで): black tomesode — worn by mothers of the bride/groom; the most formal
  • 色留袖(いろとめそで): colored tomesode — worn by married women or unmarried relatives at formal events

COMMON COLLOCATIONS:

  • 留袖(とめそで)()る: to wear a tomesode
  • 留袖(とめそで)姿(すがた): figure in a tomesode
  • 留袖(とめそで)()りる: to rent a tomesode

CULTURAL CONTEXT:
Most commonly seen at weddings, worn by the bride's and groom's mothers. The patterns are concentrated at the hem so that they appear elegant when seated, with the upper body remaining a dignified solid color.

SIMILAR WORDS:

  • 振袖(ふりそで): furisode — long-sleeved kimono for unmarried women
  • 訪問着(ほうもんぎ): hōmongi — semi-formal kimono with patterns flowing across the whole garment