スキンシップ

すきんしっぷ
noun
physical closeness; bonding through touch
familysociety
1. physical contact that builds closeness (hugging, holding hands, cuddling)
A Japanese coinage from 'skin' and the ending of 'friendship': the touching, hugging, and holding that build affection, especially between parents and children, and also between partners or with pets. It has nothing to do with English 'kinship.' Often with (はか)る or 不足(ぶそく).
Physical closeness between parent and child is important.
I make a point of cuddling and holding my baby.
Work is so busy that I feel I'm not getting enough close contact with my children.

A 和製英語(わせいえいご) (Japanese-made English) word; English has no single equivalent, and 'kinship' is a false match. In Japanese it is a warm, everyday word of child-rearing.

Common collocations

  • スキンシップ(はか): to make an effort at physical closeness
  • スキンシップ(): to have physical contact (with a child, a pet)
  • スキンシップ不足(ぶそく): a lack of physical closeness

Usage

Between adults who are not a couple, the word can describe unwelcome touching, and 職場(しょくば)スキンシップ is a phrase from harassment discussions rather than from friendship.

Related words

  • ()()い: contact, interaction — touching in the wider sense of coming into contact with people
  • (): to hold, to hug